It seems like I’ve been on a merry-go-round of relationships for more years than I care to speak about. I start each one with a lot of hope and zeal and am heartbroken when they end. So eventually I was desperate and wanted some advice about what keeps going wrong and I started to perform a little research on the Internet.
And you know what? There are a large amount of folks on the Internet that want to give you information about love and relationships! But I discovered a report by this bloke named Michael Griswold that talks about relationship psychology.
It wasn’t at all what I expected when I first started reading it. I was afraid it might be some dull article just talking about what relationship psychology is, but instead it talks about the way to USE relationship psychology to enhance your relationships.
For example, he talks about how nothing remains the same in life, including relationships, so it just messes things up when you attempt to force your relationship to always stay the same. That makes lots of sense to me right?
I know that I would like to talk for hours and spend as much time as practicable in the beginning with a new partner and if I freak out simply because he wants to look at the game with his chums instead of taking me to the pictures then naturally the relationship is going to begin to go downhill.
What really got my attention was when he was talking about staying calm even if you’re fighting or not speaking for some unknown reason. Because that is how it’s now does not imply that things will not improve later without you attempting to fix it.
I know during the past that I have panicked after arguments or if I haven’t heard from my boyfriend in a couple of days. My imagination has run free and I usually end up exclaiming or doing something that just makes things worse.
Now don’t misunderstand what I mean, he isn’t suggesting that you will not ever have to work at the relationship or that there will never be any issues, but I adore the idea that I don’t have to panic just because things aren’t going well. In truth he makes the point that you get more interesting when you’re able to handle things calmly. And let’s face it girls, most men hate drama.
Here is the link to the article since I know you will need to read it for yourself http://reunitedrelationships.com/main/relationship-psychology/ and take a look at the rest of blog as well for more ideas on using relationship psychology if that is what you are interested in.
Also here is a video he did as well.