Abuse Should Never Be Allowed
In some cases divorce becomes the only recourse to seek and one of the main contributing factors that would call for such drastic measure would be taken would be the existence of abuse within the framework of the marriage. When there is any sign of abuse having to be endured and this is supported with relevant and indisputable evidence, then the divorce proceeding should and could be contemplated without much problems.
However it should be noted that in almost all cases the onus would have to be on the individual in question to prove without any doubt, that there is some level of abuse currently having to be endured within the framework of the existing marriage circumstances.
This abuse does not necessarily only have to be of the physical kind, as mental abuse is also considered to be just as destructive and its consequences difficult to live down or adjust too.
Physical abuse is easier to identify and support with very clear and proper evidence, however in comparison, mental abuse can be much harder to detect let alone substantiate with the relevant evidence needed for cycle of court proceedings to be engaged.
It is an argumentative point of contention as to where and how this abuse element can be tagged or defined unless the abuse takes on and shows very clear visible negative results. however if there are no clear visible evidence of the said abuse taking place, it is often and uphill battle to prove the existence of abuse within the relationship especially and both parties are unable to agree on the basis that constitute abuse.
This then leads to other issues such as how long and how far has the presence of the abuse impacted the framework of the marriage.
The Divorce Option
... trying and keep the marriage from actual divorce. However is divorce is inventible, then other elements such as the marital property and debts would have to be sorted out and agreed upon to avoid any possible hiccups during the process of the divorce proceedings. Depending on the individual couple s circumstances, these proceedings can be very easy or very difficult to facilitate. ...
Are There Emotional Wounds
... various support groups and therapist services available today, the individual going through such an unpleasant experience can now seek the necessary help to make this transition period more manageable and acceptable. The wounds that would most likely cause a significant percentage of pain that would most likely not heal or in the best of circumstances take a longer time to heal ...
Are You Staying Just For The Children
... this disharmonious feelings within the marriage framework, will end up causing more damage that good to all those involved. Staying in a bad marriage, for the sake of the kids can be worse that actually going ahead and filing for divorce. The first style keeps everyone together but in a rather stressful environment of coexistence, while the latter contemplates the possibility ...
How Are Your Actions Contributing To The Problems
... of the divorce can be long and painful and the consequences almost always hard to recover from mentally and physically. Therefore each person should be aware of their own actions that could be negatively contributing to the enhancing an already difficult situation. If there is clear evidence of such behavioral patterns, then the party concerned should be encouraged to seek other ...